I just heard the best LDS parenting advice, EVER! The terrible twos are in full force in this house, and Lincoln's very spirited nature has made it even more of a struggle for me as a of late. I have been reading a lot, praying a lot, and crying a lot in order to know how to change my parenting to better suit Lincoln's needs.
***God answers prayers.***
My friend, Jenni, recommended I take the talk on tape she was donating at our last Relief Society activity (wich was a stuff swap activity.) It is called, "Raising Up a Family to the Lord" by: Gene R. Cook.
|Image Credit: The talk on tape comes on CD, too aparently.|
A good friend of mine who does not yet have children of her own, sent me a message about a month ago asking for any resources I had for creating a Christ-centered home - especially ones that are helpful with little children. She is wanting to work towards putting some of those resources together before she has children. So, I gathered a list of those resources for her, and now I want to share them with all of you.
Here are some of the resources and products we use to teach our little ones the Gospel (the "good news" of Christ's atonement), in a way that is exciting for them:
- Every day we read scriptures together as a family. My set of scriptures have all of these scripture stickers in them. They are see-through pictures that illustrate the point of scripture mastery/preach my gospel scriptures. I let Lincoln pick a picture, and then we read and discuss that section of scriptures. The picture really helps keep him focused and interested.
- I have one of the old Gospel Art kits in the blue boxes, which they don't sell anymore - but they do sell these spiral bound gospel art books for only $3.50:
- If you don't want to spend any money and/or if you want the accompanying summaries of the stories, you can find that all online at this link. The Gospel art kit is a great and easy way to do FHE's (Family Home Evening) for kids. I think of a scripture story or a principle I want to teach, and wherever possible I include a picture from my kit so Lincoln has something to look at during the lesson. He can point and ask about the picture, and I have something physical to help explain more abstract concepts or stories to him. Also, there are summaries that help me refresh my memory on details of the story which is very helpful.
- The Friend Magazine is as good as gold! Whenever our Friend magazine arrives, Lincoln jumps for joy, and I try to give it a quick flip through before I let him unleash his 2 year old excitement on the magazine completely. I make a copy of the coloring page and store them in my FHE binder, as Lincoln loves to color and those make great FHE activities. I also check for special activities or handouts that I can use. For example: all last year the friend had illustrated Book of Mormon story flannel board characters on the inside back covers of their magazine. I cut them out, and now we have several great FHE activities with characters to act out the scenes. In preparing for Easter, the March issue had an Easter advent puzzle. I cut it out and laminated it and did some of the activities with Lincoln the week before Easter. Also, throughout each month Lincoln and I simply read the Friend magazine together which he absolutely loves. At the end of the month, I look through the magazine and cut out any articles/activities I think would be worthwhile for future FHE's and throw those in my FHE binder too. (This growing FHE binder I have will be beautifully organized and alphabetized by topic in about 10 years. For now, just having all these resources in one spot works well enough for us as I can just grab something out of the pile when I need it.) ;)
is a very big way we incorporate Christ in our home. Just about every
day, I sit at the piano with Lincoln and sometimes Atley, too as she is
holding up her head and body up pretty well these days, and we sing songs together
from The Children's Songbook.
- If no one in your family plays piano, you can still very easily incorporate music into your FHE's and daily life with kids with the church's music site or you can buy the Children's songbook set. I also know the church puts out CD's each year for the songs that will be sung for all the Primary programs. I think I will purchase those once Lincoln starts going to primary, so that we can listen in the car and he can learn the songs easier.
- On Sundays, we only listen to gospel-related music: we have EFY CD's, Mormon Tabernacle choir, Mindy Gledhill, etc. Sometimes we like to listen to the Mormon Tabernacle choir station on www.pandora.com, too. Also, to keep reverent spirit during weekday mornings, we sometimes like to listen to classical music.
- In addition to the pictures from our gospel art kit, I also like to utilize the LDS Media Library for its videos whenever I can. For a recent example, for FHE before General Conference we had a lesson with Lincoln about prophets being "Watchmen on the Tower." I was able to find an old seminary video made on this subject, and Lincoln loved watching, "Again! Again!" he asked after it was over.
- The Church has recently produced beautiful videos on Christ's life that are divided up into short segments. Perfect for family night lessons. Those Bible Videos can be found here.
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- File folder games are great activities for church to help keep the kids quiet during sacrament meeting, or as FHE activities. Deseret book and other church bookstores carry file folder Game books like these. I own one of these books. The ladies in my ward just got together last month for a file folder co-op group. We each colored the pages for one file folder game, and once we all submit our finished pages by scanning them in an email, the secretary of the group will sent them all back out to us in a zipped email, and now we have about 20 file folder games each, and we only had to color one ourselves. Lincoln absolutely loves his one file folder game, so I am excited to make more. Some of these file folder game books come with CD's of the pages already in color that you can print if you want to completely save yourself the hassle of coloring.
|This is the file folder fun book I own. You can find all these books at this link.|
- Sugardoodle has lots of free printable file folder games and TONS of other resources for LDS families and leaders, too.
|Sugardoodle.net screenshot 5/20/13.|
- We have a large picture of Christ and a temple hanging on our living room walls. I have found that these have been helpful tools in daily living to help Lincoln recognize who Christ is, and how we feel about Him, as well as to recognize and love God's house. Lincoln will point now and say, "Geeze!" (Jesus) "That's right Lincoln. That IS Jesus. And we love Jesus!"
- My friend bought some great scripture story flannel boards and packets for Lincoln for his birthday. Flannel story boards are fun way to get your kids interested and hands-on with learning scripture stories or to keep them happy during church. They can be pretty pricey, but you could also make your own very inexpensively. Here's a link to printouts the church has for free that you can print, color and attached to flannel for your own homemade board (here's a link on how to make your own flannel board.) The Friend sometimes prints these flannel board characters on their covers in color, as I mentioned earlier, so you could also just cut those out and laminate them and glue them to flannel as you see them pop up in your Friend magazine.
- Squire likes teaching FHE lessons by reading a story from the Teachings of the Presidents of the Church manuals on occasion. This is a nice, simple way to do FHE, and the stories often have pictures to look at while he reads as well.
- Every Sunday night, we read a story from our illustrated book of Mormon instead of a secular bedtime story. We own this one. This nice hardcover book was given to us as a gift by Squire's Dad. It is a very nice resource, but it is better suited to older children. Even though the text is out of Lincoln's grasp, the full-page color illustrations are very nice and Lincoln definitely enjoys them. Any illustrated Book of Mormon or Bible story set is great to have with kids. Here is a link to many different illustrated Book of Mormon story books. My little sister used this one. I would recommend it for toddlers as it is smaller and in board book format. In fact, I'm thinking of purchasing it for Lincoln and making him a scripture case so he can bring his own scriptures to church just like mom and dad!
- I try to incorporate our weekend/weekday activities into FHE lessons on Monday. For example one Saturday we worked on our garden as a family and then we had a lesson on Faith (being like a seed, etc.) on Monday. One Monday night we had some friends over for a hot dog roast in our back yard with our fire pit - we taught about the Brother of Jared molting the stones out of rock in the fire, and Christ touching them to light them up. One Saturday we went to our zoo - then we had a lesson on Noah and all the animals in the ark. Today, Lincoln and I made homemade bread. Then for FHE we gave some bread to our neighbors and then read a couple scriptures on how Christ is the bread of Life and watched the associated Life of Jesus Christ Bible video. I am always trying to look for ways I can tie spiritual concepts and doctrines, to Lincoln's physical experiences.
- I have found a few helpful blog posts on FHE's on Pinterest. If you spend any time on Pinterest, you can start an FHE idea folder so you can reference the blog posts later when you want them. This website, for example, is pretty awesome - it has over 120 Family Home Evening lesson plans for free.
I've shared my resources, now, please, tell me -
What resources do YOU use to create a Christ-centered home?